Hey guys, We come to the world with an empty brain. In the process of growing up, we make agreements with ourselves which later decides our future. But most of the agreements are unintentional. For example, our childhood if someone would appreciate us we agreement make an agreement that we are good but when someone says us stupid we would make an agreement that we are stupid.
But don’t worry you can cancel your agreement and add new ones. So here are Four Agreements you should make immediately.
1. Be Impeccable with your words.
Our words are the most powerful tool we have and even we don’t realize that. A good would be what I told about our childhood. when you say something to someone it psychologically affects their brain and they make an agreement of that word.
2. Never take anything personally.
When someone says negative things to us and if we get upset, it means we believe their statement is right. For example, if you call a kid “Oldman”, he will laugh at you. Because he knows that he isn’t old. While if you do the same with an actual old man, he will feel bad.
So if you have a positive agreement about yourself you’ll never take criticism personally.
3. Don’t make assumptions
Making assumptions from the first look is a very bad habit among people these days. We tend to judge anyone(We don’t even know) by just looking at them. But sometimes it turns out to be totally opposite. So before making any assumptions about anyone, try to understand what he/she is going through.
4. Always do your best
I don’t think I need to explain this one. We all know if Give your best, you can do anything. For example, When Elon Musk started SpaceX he wasn’t a rocket scientist but he did his best and started learning about rocket science. I don’t think I need to tell you what happened then.
I share these from a book called The four agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz
Try to make these four agreements with yourself as soon as possible. I guarantee it will change your attitude, science attitude is everything it will change your life in a good way. This is it for today, catch you guys in the next one. Till then peace.
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