How to control people?


Research shows financial success in a core technical field like engineering also 85 % depends on your social skills, especially if you are a boss or a teacher you need to have good social skills and know-how to control your employees or students. Now controlling here doesn’t mean by doing some black magic or by showing authority. We’ll use psychology here.

So, here are three easy psychological steps you can follow to control people the way you want.

1. Don’t Criticize

Human nature does not like to admit their own fault. When people are criticized or humiliated, they rarely respond well and will often become defensive and resent their critic.

To handle people well, we must never criticize, condemn or complain because it will never result in the behavior we desire.

2. Give Honest and Sincere Appreciation

Appreciation is one of the most powerful tools in the world to win someone. People will rarely work at their maximum potential under criticism, but honest appreciation brings out their best but remembers appreciation must be sincere, meaningful and with love.

3.Arouse in the Other Person an Eager Want

To get what you want from another person, we must forget our own perspective and begin to see things from the point of view of others. When we can combine our desires with their wants, they become eager to work with us and we can mutually achieve our objective.

I shared these steps from the all-time bestseller “How to win friends and influence people” by Dale Carnegie. If you want to check the book out:

And yeah don’t forget to share your experience after following these steps in the comment section below.

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